I think its time for my blog so here it goes. Sorry if its not what you expect but its the truth.
When i first met the group i thought the trip was gunna go badly because i judged people by there appearance but when i got to know them i then realised that there not here for a holiday or something to do they actually wanted to make a difference, once we got in the Philippines everyone was tired or jet lagged but once we all got rest and set of we were all determined to do something to help someone so we all put in 110% into the playground, the house or even teaching or playing with the kids. After a few days everyone was starting to feel tired because we were working none stop day in and day out making the best of what we had and what we could do but by the time it came to the end of our trip we had complete what we wanted and more we even got to make a memorial wall on the side of the new playground which was so special to us to leave our names with hand prints for the children alongside there flag and ours was just amazing.
I went to the Phillipines in 2008 with a group of young lads expecting the worst and even then it was indescribable and then i went back in 2010 with a group of young girls from Sholing girls school and some of the boys who went to the previous trip and a few extra’s of course, but this time i was expecting to know everything, expect the same smells, the same sights and to be honest this time i found it so much harder because to me it was worse in some parts it smelt more and looked terrible, no one could ever describe what we seen out there and i just hope one day i can return again because i was lucky to go the second time let alone the first so thank you Bezzer for that 🙂 x
The conditions in the Philippines was harder than expected because it was so hot you could feel the sweat run down your arms and the humidity just made you tired and need a drink all the time, the sun was so hot people started to burn and the area we was working in was well look in your bin when its full with wasted junk and food and picture that 1 million times worse and then your be near what it was like out there.
I met some of the best people i could ever met on this trip because they have taught me a lot and that’s to respect what we have and what we haven’t and don’t take everything for granted, i know i did before i went and i probably still do a little bit now but i will never forget the people i met and i will never take my friendship with them for granted because they are the nicest friendliest people i have ever met, just don’t look at them as tramps or people begging because there not they are just normal people like us who never had a chance for good house’s or jobs so be grateful that you have.
When people tell you its gunna be bad you expect it to look or smell terrible but when your there its just a massive shock and it is miles worse than what anyone could imagine so if you ever get the opportunity to do something like this don’t ever say no because it will change your life and if you do say no then you must be to stubborn or just don’t care about the world or anyone else, even if you get asked to make a visit and that’s all that is even enough to make a little girl smile or even a whole school smile and laugh at your jokes, i’m not joking i would gladly do this trip again and again but if not this one then several other that could help people.
I would like to say thank you to all the girls that went because everyone under estimated them including me and the other boys and most probably the teachers too but they helped a lot more than i though and probably put in more effort than me and the other boys because they helped just as much as everyone else and just wanted to get stuck in even if it was manual labour or heavy lifting, even getting muddy they just got stuck in and thanks to all the boys for doing a great job to, the trip was a bigger and better success than anyone could of dreamed of because we got more done than planned and even got to spend time with the children at the end which was great.
The biggest thing i got to take away from this experience other than what i have done and helped with over there, is two special people i met whilst i was there and that is Pasqual and Manuela, Pasqual is the nicest man i have ever met he was always trying to keep us smiling and always making jokes, he is the reason i coped through the good and bad times out there because i could always have a smile on my face and i will never forget him because he has given so much to me and i hope one day i could do the same back and Manuela is the sweetest girl i have ever met she wrote me a letter and gave me her favorite necklace that she never takes off which i will always keep and i will never forget her smile because she was the best and there was many other children like her but she was the one that stood out most towards me so thank you, i will never forget the memories that i have and i will never forget the things that they have given me.
Thanks to everyone for making this happen and making this trip as enjoyable as it could of ever been especially since the conditions we was in so thanks x
~X~ Love Jefferz ~X~